Rev. Stephanie Haskins

Spiritual Direction

“Nothing can dim the light that shines from within.”

- MAYA ANGELOU

Welcome, Friend!

I am a pastor, spiritual director, college chaplain, deep listener, writer, retreat leader, contemplative, intuitive, healer and preacher and at my most alive I am a bright soul. Discovering light in myself and on my path, and helping others find the same. I believe in kind religion, spiritual seeking, and the guiding presence of the Holy in everyday life.  I am also a Midwestern gal living on the Connecticut shoreline, 10 minutes from the beach. 

I look forward to connecting with you!

What is Spiritual Direction?

At its heart, spiritual direction is a practice of deep listening to the guiding presence and rhythms of the sacred in your life. It assumes you have innate wisdom and a natural capacity to hear what your life and your spirit are speaking.

In a typical session, you might share what’s going on in your life, its struggles and joys. We may linger over moments of clarity and insight, discover spiritual practices that nourish you, and take time for pauses and prayers.

It is a time that is yours both to shape and to receive. I am present to witness, listen, and ask gentle questions.

A spiritual director is one who helps another to recognize and to follow the inspirations of grace in his life, in order to arrive at the end to which God is leading him.
— Thomas Merton

Testimonials

“Stephanie has been my faithful and loving spiritual companion and soul friend for nearly a decade. She has accompanied me through personal crisis, grief, healing, and questions of meaning and belonging in this chaotic and beautiful world…”

- SHELLEY

“Stephanie is a complete godsend. She has a way of listening and providing presence - unlike anyone I've ever encountered - that is deep and intentional. She really sees and hears you. And she has such incredible insights that really gets past what's on the surface and to what's truly and deeply there…”

- HEATHER

“She has welcomed every part of queerness, questioning soul and held the tender parts with me. She is magical. Stephanie listens deeply, guides with thoughtful questions and genuinely cares. I’m truly grateful to have Stephanie on this journey of discernment and exploring liberation with Divinity, it is a blessing…”

- AMANDA